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Feb 12
3 min

Conversation Hearts: 4 Ways to Promote Effective Communication With The One(s) You Love

As a relationship and sex therapist the number one issue I see with my patients is a disconnect in communication. Many times couples and...

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She’s Not a Savage, She’s Hurt: 5 Things to Consider Before Approaching a New Love Interest.

Tia E.

Jan 25
3 min

She’s Not a Savage, She’s Hurt: 5 Things to Consider Before Approaching a New Love Interest.

In today’s society, it seems dating has become a lost art form. The idea of one person contacting another person, for an in person date...

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There’s Some Heaux In This House: 5 Reason Why Having a Heaux Phase Can Enhance Your Quality of Life

Tia E.

Jan 7
4 min

There’s Some Heaux In This House: 5 Reason Why Having a Heaux Phase Can Enhance Your Quality of Life

2020 was a crazy a year, quite the opposite of anything anybody has hoped for the year of “Perfect Vision”. Although we learned a new...

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Tia E.

Jul 30, 2019
5 min

He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not?

Therapy can be scary to jump into, but your mental health and emotional stability will thank you for it. Relationship therapy can be a great

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Of Course, Sidechicks Have More Fun With Your Man

Tia E.

Feb 20, 2019
5 min

Of Course, Sidechicks Have More Fun With Your Man

Let’s face it. Sidechicks and Sidedudes are becoming more and more talked about in society, and some have even become bolder and more...

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You Hang Up, No You Hang Up! How to Be Comfortable With NRE.

Tia E.

Feb 7, 2019
5 min

You Hang Up, No You Hang Up! How to Be Comfortable With NRE.

Can we go deep? Let’s Talk New Relationship Energy, or as now more popularly known as NRE. Some people may call this the honeymoon stage....

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Tia E.

Jan 11, 2019
4 min

New Year, Old Boo!

The saying is, people come in and out of your life for a reason. This includes relationships and romantic interests. However, there’s...

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Tia E.

Nov 16, 2018
4 min

I’m Bringing Sexy Back

Let’s face it, sometimes we just don’t feel sexy. It’s easy to fall into this rut when we become complacent in life, with our...

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Tia E.

Nov 4, 2018
3 min

Yes I’m Still Single Aunt Carol

The holidays are coming and as most single people between the ages of 23 and 45 know, this means older relatives believing they are...

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Tia E.

Jun 28, 2018
2 min

Are You Coming With Me?

6/29/18 UPDATED: The song actually is not about a vibrator (bummer I know) BUT imagine if it was? SO…. You may or may not have heard (the...

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Tia E.

Feb 2, 2018
3 min

Can I Make It Juicy For You?

Raise your hand, or nod your head if you have used lube, or are open to using lube. Lubricant (lube) is a product use to assist or...

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Holla Out The Window It’s The Project Nympho!

Tia E.

Jan 11, 2018
2 min

Holla Out The Window It’s The Project Nympho!

Picture this: It’s 5 o’clock in the morning on any given Sunday. Last night you went on eventful date with your girl. Come home, bam...

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How To Add Some Spark To Your Sex Life This New Year!!

Tia E.

Jan 2, 2018
4 min

How To Add Some Spark To Your Sex Life This New Year!!

Relearn Your Body Take the time to learn what makes you feel good, mentality, emotionally, physically and sexually. If you are not a skin...

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