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Putting Love Into Your Own Hands
Have you ever taken matters into your own hands? Whether you are single or a partnered, self love is a wonderful way to ground yourself,...
Tia E.
Feb 22, 20243 min read
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The Healing in Hypersexuality
Hypersexuality doesn't have to be seen as negative. Come see how it can help the healing process.
Tia E.
Sep 2, 20212 min read
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Conversation Hearts: 4 Ways to Promote Effective Communication With The One(s) You Love
As a relationship and sex therapist the number one issue I see with my patients is a disconnect in communication. Many times couples and...
Tia E.
Feb 12, 20213 min read
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She’s Not a Savage, She’s Hurt: 5 Things to Consider Before Approaching a New Love Interest.
In today’s society, it seems dating has become a lost art form. The idea of one person contacting another person, for an in person date...
Tia E.
Jan 25, 20213 min read
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There’s Some Heaux In This House: 5 Reason Why Having a Heaux Phase Can Enhance Your Quality of Life
2020 was a crazy a year, quite the opposite of anything anybody has hoped for the year of “Perfect Vision”. Although we learned a new...
Tia E.
Jan 7, 20214 min read
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I Know it Might Not Seem Like it, BUT Your Time is Coming!
A delayed yes is still a yes, and not right now is not a no. Are you on track for change?
Tia E.
Oct 15, 20193 min read
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Protecting Your Energy & Sanity During Traumatic Times
How will you choose to protect your energy during these trying times?
Tia E.
Aug 6, 20193 min read
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He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not?
Therapy can be scary to jump into, but your mental health and emotional stability will thank you for it. Relationship therapy can be a great
Tia E.
Jul 30, 20195 min read
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Of Course, Sidechicks Have More Fun With Your Man
Let’s face it. Sidechicks and Sidedudes are becoming more and more talked about in society, and some have even become bolder and more...
Tia E.
Feb 20, 20195 min read
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You Hang Up, No You Hang Up! How to Be Comfortable With NRE.
Can we go deep? Let’s Talk New Relationship Energy, or as now more popularly known as NRE. Some people may call this the honeymoon stage....
Tia E.
Feb 7, 20195 min read
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New Year, Old Boo!
The saying is, people come in and out of your life for a reason. This includes relationships and romantic interests. However, there’s...
Tia E.
Jan 11, 20194 min read
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My Womb Is Not For Public Consumption
I find it interesting as I’m writing this that bearing children, getting pregnant, deciding to or not to be a parent is a damned if you...
Tia E.
Dec 1, 20183 min read
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I’m Bringing Sexy Back
Let’s face it, sometimes we just don’t feel sexy. It’s easy to fall into this rut when we become complacent in life, with our...
Tia E.
Nov 15, 20184 min read
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Yes I’m Still Single Aunt Carol
The holidays are coming and as most single people between the ages of 23 and 45 know, this means older relatives believing they are...
Tia E.
Nov 4, 20183 min read
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Are You Coming With Me?
6/29/18 UPDATED: The song actually is not about a vibrator (bummer I know) BUT imagine if it was? SO…. You may or may not have heard (the...
Tia E.
Jun 28, 20182 min read
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Can I Make It Juicy For You?
Raise your hand, or nod your head if you have used lube, or are open to using lube. Lubricant (lube) is a product use to assist or...
Tia E.
Feb 2, 20183 min read
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Holla Out The Window It’s The Project Nympho!
Picture this: It’s 5 o’clock in the morning on any given Sunday. Last night you went on eventful date with your girl. Come home, bam...
Tia E.
Jan 11, 20182 min read
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How To Add Some Spark To Your Sex Life This New Year!!
Relearn Your Body Take the time to learn what makes you feel good, mentality, emotionally, physically and sexually. If you are not a skin...
Tia E.
Jan 2, 20184 min read
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Going Grocery Shopping: T’s Quick 5 Step Guide to Analingus
With the topic being hot in the news and social media right now, I wanted to share an intro guide to Analingus (oral sex that involves...
Tia E.
Oct 23, 20172 min read
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Boyfriends Don’t Get BJs
Unless You TRULY Want To!!! Raise your hand, if you’ve been in a situation where your partner who had a penis, wanted to receive your...
Tia E.
Sep 5, 20172 min read
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