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Jan 7
4 min

There’s Some Heaux In This House: 5 Reason Why Having a Heaux Phase Can Enhance Your Quality of Life

2020 was a crazy a year, quite the opposite of anything anybody has hoped for the year of “Perfect Vision”. Although we learned a new phr...

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Of Course, Sidechicks Have More Fun With Your Man

Tia E.

Feb 20, 2019
5 min

Of Course, Sidechicks Have More Fun With Your Man

Let’s face it. Sidechicks and Sidedudes are becoming more and more talked about in society, and some have even become bolder and more ope...

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You Hang Up, No You Hang Up! How to Be Comfortable With NRE.

Tia E.

Feb 7, 2019
5 min

You Hang Up, No You Hang Up! How to Be Comfortable With NRE.

Can we go deep? Let’s Talk New Relationship Energy, or as now more popularly known as NRE. Some people may call this the honeymoon stage....

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Tia E.

Jan 11, 2019
4 min

New Year, Old Boo!

The saying is, people come in and out of your life for a reason. This includes relationships and romantic interests. However, there’s als...

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Tia E.

Dec 1, 2018
3 min

My Womb Is Not For Public Consumption

It find it interesting as I’m writing this that bearing children, getting pregnant, deciding to or not to be a parent is a damned if you ...

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Tia E.

Nov 16, 2018
4 min

I’m Bringing Sexy Back

Let’s face it, sometimes we just don’t feel sexy. It’s easy to fall into this rut when we become complacent in life, with our relationshi...

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Tia E.

Nov 4, 2018
3 min

Yes I’m Still Single Aunt Carol

The holidays are coming and as most single people between the ages of 23 and 45 know, this means older relatives believing they are entit...

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Tia E.

Jun 28, 2018
2 min

Are You Coming With Me?

6/29/18 UPDATED: The song actually is not about a vibrator (bummer I know) BUT imagine if it was? SO…. You may or may not have heard (the...

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Tia E.

Feb 2, 2018
3 min

Can I Make It Juicy For You?

Raise your hand, or nod your head if you have used lube, or are open to using lube. Lubricant (lube) is a product use to assist or enhan...

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Holla Out The Window It’s The Project Nympho!

Tia E.

Jan 11, 2018
2 min

Holla Out The Window It’s The Project Nympho!

Picture this: It’s 5 o’clock in the morning on any given Sunday. Last night you went on eventful date with your girl. Come home, bam amaz...

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How To Add Some Spark To Your Sex Life This New Year!!

Tia E.

Jan 2, 2018
4 min

How To Add Some Spark To Your Sex Life This New Year!!

Relearn Your Body Take the time to learn what makes you feel good, mentality, emotionally, physically and sexually. If you are not a skin...

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Going Grocery Shopping: T’s Quick 5 Step Guide to Analingus

Tia E.

Oct 24, 2017
2 min

Going Grocery Shopping: T’s Quick 5 Step Guide to Analingus

With the topic being hot in the news and social media right now, I wanted to share an intro guide to Analingus (oral sex that involves mo...

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Tia E.

Sep 6, 2017
2 min

Boyfriends Don’t Get BJs

Unless You TRULY Want To!!! Raise your hand, if you’ve been in a situation where your partner who had a penis, wanted to receive your gol...

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Tia E.

Oct 26, 2016
1 min

Don’t be afraid to start over

Maybe this is you, or you know somebody that’s been in a not so good relationship, but refuses to get out because of how much time has be...

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What To Do If You Suspect Your Preteen/ Teen Is Masturbating?

Tia E.

Aug 20, 2015
1 min

What To Do If You Suspect Your Preteen/ Teen Is Masturbating?

If you do not feel comfortable having this conversation, ask yourself why this may be difficult for you to address at this time? If you f...

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